December 27, 2008

3-Days, 60 Miles for Breast Cancer


On November 7th, 8th and 9th I was so honored and privileged to get to, once again, participate in the Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer 3-Day Walk through Dallas/Ft. Worth. I did this walk with my best friend, Susan, in 2006 and we were very excited to embark on this adventure again! This walk is a 60-mile walk spread out over the course of three days - each day being about 20 miles, although they normally make Day One the longest and toughest day! And although we trained a little, nothing can prepare you or your little feet for 60 miles... that's a whole lotta walking! Trust me, 60 miles is a long way.... even for this former cross country runner, it ain't easy!

In order to participate in this walk each walker MUST raise a minimum of $2,200! That's a lot of money to raise and a huge commitment - but it all goes to a very worthy cause... breast cancer research and education. And over 85% of the money raised goes right to the cause... pretty good considering the amount of work and effort and organization that goes into this event! It is truly an amazing, well-oiled machine - they do an unbelievable job of putting on this event. So, for all of my amazing friends and my husband's generous clients, thank you so very much for your donations and for allowing us to all make a difference in the battle against breast cancer!

I just can't blog about this without personally thanking each and every one of my supporters!! I came so close to reaching my goal with your help! I think I was $188.00 short... which means that Erick and I made a personal donation of $188.00 ourselves, which we were happy to do!

THANK YOU FOR YOUR SUPPORT!

The Amans
Nancy Bahr
The Barners
Marla Bishop
Sheryl Bradley
The Bradleys
Lynne Brody
The Dawsons
Susan Dumas
Tracy Ellis
Brian Harvey
Jennifer Hicks
Kayla Hicks
Dee Jones
Eddie Jones
The Landrums
The Lindstroms
The Mikeskas
Stella Oefinger
Jeff Payson
Jan Ragland
Susan Roche
Robbie Ryan
Traci Schoenradt
McAfee
The Simms
The Sipes
The Snyders
The Uldrichs
Nancy Wendell
The Winklers
Intuit
Christine Zimmerman
Sidney Goldin
Barbara Prather
Sledge Killion
The Manuels
Quality Powder Coating

I hope that I included everyone on this list.... what a wonderful thing you all did! No matter what the amount - $10 or $100, it all made a difference! You gave what you could give and I thank you from the bottom of my heart - you have made a difference and I thought of you so much during the walk!

So now on to our adventure! This year I walked again with my best friend, Susan, and we were also joined by her husband, Todd,this year. And in addition, my cousin, Tiffany, walked with us too! It was such fun sharing this experience with people that are so special to me.

Here we are below bright (well, not so bright yet), and early on Day One. This was probably around 6:30am before Opening Ceremonies began. I think I woke up at 3:30am, Todd was picking us up at 4:00am! It was cold, and dark and way too early! But as soon as we arrived, there was excitement and hope in the air; we knew that we were going to have a life-changing three days. This year the walk began at beautiful SouthFork Ranch!


Here we are departing on the first day in front of SouthFork Ranch...


The start of the walk was very crowded, we were walking down small sidewalks through neighborhoods and with 3,500 people all walking to the same place, it was hard to spread out... you can see that by the lines at the port-a-potties at the first pit stop! Needless to say, we did not stop to potty.... we found a CVS instead!


I have to say that Day One is always the toughest day for me. They always make it the longest day, almost 22 miles I think and by the time you get to that last 3 miles or so, you are just done! Your feet, your body just don't want to go anymore. And unfortunately this year on Day One I let myself get really dehydrated and those last two miles were pure misery not only because my whole body hurt, but also because I was very nauseous from the dehydration and there were no pit stops left! It was totally my fault, I should have drank way more - they certainly provide plenty of pit stops and drinks, I was just foolish! Poor Susan thought I was going to pass out - and so did I! But I made it all the way - whoo hoo! I was pale as a ghost, and had to sit down and drink lots of Gatorade at camp.

It was awesome to finally be at camp - I think we got there around 4:30pm. Funny thing though - as soon as your feet cross that finish line, your whole body just says - see ya later, I have done enough for you today! You start limping, your whole body tightens up and you wonder how in the heck you just walked 22 miles! And you definitely wonder - how in the world am I going to do that again tomorrow??? It seems impossible! Both nights I went to bed and my feet were so tender and so swollen I just knew that I wouldn't be able to do it the next morning - my feet wouldn't even fit in my crocs without serious work and discomfort! But fear not, by God's grace and his power you are always ready to go again the next day! There was lots of praying for my little feet... there was no way that this stubborn red-head was not going to finish this walk!

Oh, by the way - Day One took us through Murphy and Plano, beautiful downtown Plano, then through North Dallas, all the way down Campbell Road, past UTD, down Frankford Road and we headed to camp in Carrollton. You get to meet so many fun people along the way - we played trivia games, people sing songs (I say people meaning not me - you don't want me singing, although you'd probably start walking really fast then)... anything to pass the time and make you forget about your feet! And the food, every time you turn around they are giving you food - you'd think you might lose a few pounds walking 60 miles, but not with all the food they're giving you! I think I gained a few pounds! Ha!

We also had the privilege of seeing a group of 4 soldiers walking on the first day - they walked in full fatigues with the big backpacks, boots everything! I'm sure it was a walk in the park for them, but they sure were motivating and inspiring. The walk is mainly women, but there are definitely a few men who bravely and generously take on this journey! Yay 3-Day guys! Especially you, Todd, for doing this with us!

So, I know lots more happened on Day One, I should have kept a journal every night (I will next time), but anyway, on to Day Two.... here we are beginning our journey on Day Two. We started at camp, walked through beautiful parts of Carrollton, Plano, past Plano Presby, through gorgeous Willow Bend, then we looped back around to Carrollton. Day Two is always a big loop because we need to end back at camp for the night!


We had a beautiful stroll through Willow Bend.... the beautiful scenes and homes took our mind off of our weary feet! Although just like in 2006 - the end of Day One was tough for me, but Days Two and Three weren't too bad! As long as I keep moving and keep my legs going, I do okay. A familiar view for us girls - the back of Todd. Poor guy had so many blisters on his feet, it hurt him if he wasn't walking at a really fast pace.... I have been there, I had to walk really fast in 2006 for the same reason. We tried to keep up with him, but sometimes our short little bodies just couldn't keep up with him! I was able to keep up with him on Day Three though...

Here we are crossing the finish line on Day Two... thank you to all the Crew and to the literally hundreds of people that come to cheering stations with signs and their cute dogs and hand out candy and water, it is so much fun and you feel so supported!


Glad to be back at camp again, a tent never felt so good! I was prepared with a warm sleeping bag, warm PJs.... it was comfy cozy! It was pretty chilly at night, but those pink tents did the job! They provide us with yummy meals, entertainment and portable showers, ahhhh!! It is camping, but with some conveniences! Oh, and camp is pretty big.... they don't add all the walking at camp to that 60 miles?? It's probably more like 62 miles - ha! I think we went to bed at 8:30pm on Day One and then at 7:00pm on Day Two - really!

Tiffany and Todd both had to take a trip to the medic tent before we started Day Three. Tiffany needed to have them align her hip and Todd was getting those blisters checked out. In 2006 I got so many blisters that this year I decided to just wrap my feet completely from the start and it helped tremendously. I only got one blister - under my big toe. I thought I was going to lose it at first, but it's still here and I didn't have to go to the medic tent! I will definitely wrap my feet again - it helped with the pain and it helped with the two-hour wait at the medic tent... you can't imagine how long this line is - seriously! I'm thinking that's what it's going to look like when we all have government healthcare - kidding!

So Day Three is a little hectic because you have to get your bag and gear all packed up before starting the walk... here is Susan TRYING to get everything back into her bag and get it zipped up! Hee hee! It was cold on this last day... we had to wear layers because we knew it would get warm soon.... oh, Texas! You are only allowed to bring one bag, not weighing over 35 pounds and you have to fit a ton of gear and clothes into that bag!


Starting Day Three... we started at camp and our end destination was the SMU Campus! It seemed like it would be impossible to walk that far in time for Closing Ceremonies? It just seemed like more than 18 miles... they give you the easiest day on Day Three. But sure enough, that was the plan!


It was so hard to get a good picture of the line of people walking in front and behind... it was so amazing and inspiring to just see people literally as far as you could see both in front and behind you. We seemed to stay in about the middle of the pack each day... around the 1,000 mark and there were about 3,500 walking. On Day One we actually started at the very, very back and ended up making our way to the front somehow.


So I know personally I got a little giddy, or probably even delirious on Day Three. I think your brain just stops working because your body is doing so much work. You're so tired; you'll laugh at just about anything, or at least I will. I found myself cracking up over and over again on Day Three. As I've said, the support along the way is amazing, people stand outside their homes waiting to greet you and cheer you on... it's awesome! But then with that support they say phrases like "you're almost there" or "just a little more"... well, let me tell you - they are lying! They mean well, but you are not "almost there". Our joke is that "one more mile" on the 3-Day Walk is really two miles! We appreciated the encouragement, but as a supporter yelled "one more mile".... Todd jokingly said to us, "If this pit stop is more than one mile, I'm coming back and kicking ?*&%$#" Ha! Seriously, you have to laugh and keep the comedy of it all! He said he was going to come back and kick her butt with his good foot, but he wasn't sure which foot that was yet! Hee hee!

So, at the opening ceremonies on Friday they handed out these cool flags which represented "Why We Walk" and everyone took turns carrying the flags throughout the walk. There were probably 35 or 40 flags and you'd carry one for a while and then pass it on... here is me and Susan with the "Best Friends" flag. Love you, Susan... the sister that I never had; God finally gave me her 12 years ago!


Like I said, this event is so organized, they put so much into it. The Crew is all made up of volunteers and they are amazing! They provide so much support and motivation... even silly little things like these bras on a port-a-potty. Let me tell you - there is no boob joke or boob reference that is off limits during these three days! You've got husbands wearing shirts that say "Saving Second Base".... all of the team names and slogans are hilarious! Next time we are going to come up with a great name... we are hoping to walk again in 2010!


Here are a couple of pictures of sweep vans... these vans come by just in case anyone needs a ride... if you need a ride you give them the "thumbs down" and they'll take you to the next pit stop. Luckily I was walking with three people that were as passionate and stubborn as me... we would have rather crawled on the ground rather than be picked up by a sweep van. No matter how much pain, we pressed on and all made it every single step!


Me and Tiffany.... one reason we walked, in honor of our Grandmother, Nanny, a breast cancer survivor. It was so fun to walk with my cousin, one of my favorite people in the whole world... it was nice to spend this time with her and share this memory forever!


Day Three was the most beautiful walk as we walked through Addison, following the Tollway and then down Arapaho and through North Dallas and the Valley View area, then through the Highland Park and Park Cities area down Turtle Creek Blvd. Literally some of the most beautiful trees, homes and neighborhoods that I've ever seen... finally ending up on the gorgeous SMU Campus. We had finished - and we had the t-shirts to prove it!


They kept us in a holding area for a while until everyone could finish and then we all marched together in rows of ten through the campus to closing ceremonies. This march was one of my favorite moments, you are able to see how many people walked and it's a never-ending sea of white 3-Day shirts. At closing ceremonies, we listened to a wonderful speaker and then were greeted by thousands of supporters, including our families! You couldn't help but tear up and feel proud of your accomplishment!


At closing ceremonies everyone takes their shoes off and waves them in the air in honor of breast cancer survivors and in memory of those we have lost... and also because you are so stinkin' sick of these shoes and you just want them off! I think Todd said he was going to throw his tennis shoes in the trash!

All the flags came back together on stage at Closing Ceremonies...


My sweet family there to greet me at Closing Ceremonies! I missed them so much! Thank you, Daddy, for taking care of the boys for three days and for raising so much money for this cause. I love you all so much!


And my favorite picture, and of course it comes with a story... but let's just say, Susan, you finally got your flowers!


I know that I am only sharing a small taste of the adventures we experienced during our three days. This is really a once-in-a-lifetime experience and I have been blessed to do it twice. I can't thank everyone enough for their support, their prayers and encouragement. I would do this walk every year if I thought I could raise the money! Hopefully every two years will be possible and we will continue to grow our team and raise more money for this great cause. If you have ever thought about doing this event - do it! Do it with us in 2010! You can't imagine the hope that you feel seeing thousands of people walking for the same purpose - wearing their pink and even dolled up in costumes. I know the stories of the people who walk are too numerous to tell - but you'll see men walking in honor of their wives and mothers that have lost the battle to cancer, you see daughters walking with their surviving mothers, and you see those who simply walk because they dream of a cure one day. So, thank you again - and thank you to all the kids, adults, little puppies and even strangers who came out during the route with their music, signs, costumes, food, drinks and needed encouragement! It is three days that I will never forget.... and I hope the $9m raised for this DFW walk will make huge strides for this battle against breast cancer!

13th Annual Haunted House Night


So clearly, if Halloween is my favorite holiday... this is one of my favorite nights of the year, honestly! I look forward to our Annual Haunted House Date Night with our dearest friends, the Sutherlands, all year! It is always a truly unforgettable evening - filled with many laughs and screams!

This is our 13th year of doing this; can't believe that - wow! Now, last year - we went out on a date night and were going to go to a haunted house, but then decided not to because I was literally two days away from giving birth to Evan and Aunt Susan thought that her nephew might be born in a haunted house if we went! Ha! So two years of no haunted houses, I was ready!

We always go to at least one haunted house - but most of the time we are able to make it to a couple, and one year even went to three! Oh, yea!!! But with all of those houses after this many years, we get them all mixed up and can't remember which ones we've been to or what they were like... we do have some favorites, and luckily new ones open up every year! There are so many memories.... most of them include Susan being scared half to death and Todd finding something small and making a comedy of it all night!

So for posterity I told Susan I would blog about this year's adventure. Read on if you want all the gory details...

This year we decided to go to Dr. Haunt's Chamber of Fears.... it was quite a drive so we decided that we would just grab dinner at a restaurant on the way, we thought we'd see plenty! But we were kind of out in the middle of nowhere; we saw about 12 Sonic's, but not much else. We had to really look for a place to sit down and eat. Luckily we finally found a Chili's.... what an experience though, this was a SMOKING restaurant (they still exist) and boy was it smokey. I guess when it's the only place you can smoke, all the smokers come here! And then for the joke of the night (Todd always makes sure there is one)... a few tables down from us there was this huge, bright light over a table and it was literally like a spotlight as these poor people tried to eat. I guess they ran out of 60-watt bulbs and replaced it with a 200-watt bulb! Well, Todd couldn't take his eyes off of it - it was the root of many jokes throughout dinner. "I'm blinded and I can't see my food!".... Oh, it's the little things in life... thanks, Todd.

After dinner we headed up I-35 and arrived at the much-anticipated "Chamber of Fears"... sounds scary, huh???? But unfortunately, there were no fears to be had at the Chamber of Fears.... they tried, but failed to scare us professionals! Of course, Todd and Erick are never scared, Susan is always scared half out of her mind (ha!) and then I'm one of those that doesn't scare easily, but certain things freak me out! Certain sounds scare me and rooms where all scenes are around you and you can't see everything at once or back up to a wall, scary! Although this house was not all that scary, it was still a fabulous time! The night is really about being with friends and laughing.... And we were so close to Oklahoma, Todd tried to talk us into driving up to Winstar for a couple of hours.... he hinted at it every so often. "Hey - Winstar is just a few minutes up the highway guys...."

So below here is one of the Halloween props hanging out at the Cutler house during Halloween. And let me tell you, this guy is pretty creepy! It was our first year to put him together and I'm not ashamed to tell you that he kind of creeped me out! He is the size of a person and when you catch him out of the corner of your eye when it's kind of dark in the house, you really think someone is in the house - he made me jump on more than one occasion! And let me tell you how that began.... so for several days I had asked Erick to put together this guy, but he was still in the box for a while... well, I had to go to the grocery store one night and as I'm coming in the door with groceries in hand late at night, I look down the hallway and Erick has put this guy together and has him standing straight up looking right at me as I come in... I thought I was going to have an accident, my heart skipped a beat! And Erick, well he was in the garage laughing hysterically at me! So from that point, it was on.... we moved this guy around our house scaring each other all month. And even Preston got into it... when we were out at haunted houses, he and Aunt Tasha moved him into our bathroom and he scared me half to death as he was standing there in the dark staring at me! Ahhhhh!!! Preston couldn't wait to wake up to see if he had scared mom! Oh, no - we have created another Halloween prankster - watch out! Why do we torture ourselves, we're so sick... love it!

So hopefully I have remembered and bored you with a few details of our 13th Annual Haunted House Night!! Susan, this was for you!! Looking forward to next year!

Pumpkin Pie Photography

So after many years of taking countless photos of my boys (I don't think they recognize me without a camera on my face) and holding impromptu photo sessions for friends, I have finally decided to make it official and launch a photography business - Pumpkin Pie Photography! Thank you to all my friends who have urged me to do this time and time again! I am thoroughly enjoying this new venture - I should have done it a long time ago! I am having a blast! And thank you to my professional photographer friends who have helped me with tons of advice and encouragement. I am so very excited to learn and to invest in courses, new lenses and all sorts of fun stuff... oh, yes - the madness has begun! You know me - once I start something, it is ON! Ha!

Please check out my website http://www.pumpkinpiephotography.com! And on my website, I have attached my new blog for Pumpkin Pie Photography - clients and friends can go on the blog to see my latest sessions!

I specialize in outdoor photography for babies, children and families! Please keep me in mind for your next photo session.

Love to All!

Happy Halloween


CANDY, CANDY, CANDY (as Garfield says).... oh, just one of the many joys of Halloween - mine and Erick's most favorite holiday of the year! It's just a time of year that I've always loved - it's just so much fun! I love costumes and all the decorations, and candy and the kids going trick-or-treating.... the neighborhood just feels so special and the kids are having so much fun! And Erick and I love haunted houses and scary movies - oh yes, we do! We deck the house out in skeletons and haunted villages, all in great fun! Carving pumpkins, pumpkin spice candles, caramel apples, love it all!

So here are a few pics from our Halloween 2008! Preston chose to be a fighter pilot this year... Maverick's got nothing on my little fighter pilot! :)


And of course, once again I couldn't choose just one costume for Evan (you'll see more below) - he had four costumes! But for Halloween night and trick-or-treating - he was this cute little pumpkin!


Here they are getting ready to go trick-or-treating with Dad! It's always a hard dilemma for me... I want to go trick-or-treating, but I also want to make sure someone is home handing out candy! So, I went to a couple of houses with them, and then stayed home and sat on the front porch, handing out candy and watching all the kids and visiting with our sweet neighbors. It was so awesome to trick-or-treat in our new neighborhood and be in a home again; just a great feeling - I was a happy mom and I was indeed dressed at "Princess Lea" for the evening's festivities... but I will not make you guys see me in that lovely wig! :-)

Erick took the boys around the neighborhood; Evan sat in his stroller and had a ball watching everyone. And Preston had a blast seeing all of his school friends and getting tons of candy!



Then they came home and we dumped out the loot and began to sample some treats! And little Evan....... well - he thought it was absolutely hilarious and the best time ever to just dive head first into all the candy! It was a riot! He would dive in and then stand up and throw candy on to the wood floors and laugh hysterically at the sounds the candy would make! He must have done this for 30 minutes - and then ran around the house just laughing! We were all very entertained and just sat around watching him.... so funny, although I think some of our Halloween candy took some abuse for this activity... a few smooshed candy bars and crushed Reese's Peanut Butter Cups! Ha!


Our Halloween villages at home...



And that day at Preston's school Evan and I went up and celebrated as they had their annual Halloween Sock Hop. They have all sorts of fun games to play and the kids get lots of prizes!

Here Preston is about to throw a ball at the dunk tank. The Fire Department was there and they all volunteered to sit in the dunk tank.... sorry guys! Preston has quite the arm and dunked him on his first shot! It was so cute... as Preston got up there all of his friends, the whole line, was cheering "Preston, Preston, Preston!" There was a loud roar when the Fireman went down! Ha!


And as I mentioned above, I wasn't able to choose just one costume for Evan.... here he is in his parade of costumes! These are also some of his one-year pictures that I had taken by a sweet photographer at our house... enjoy!




Until next year.... Happy Halloween!! BOO!

December 18, 2008

Fall and Family


Almost forgot... we did get a couple of family shots at the pumpkin patch this year! Enjoy!

The Pumpkin Patch, or two, okay... three


So anyone who has known me for more than two seconds is not surprised that we went to the pumpkin patch three times! October is mine and Erick's, and now Preston's favorite month! We love the weather, the colors, the pumpkins, Halloween, everything! And it's the beginning of the holiday season, so it's an extra special time of year! Plus, now we have a little October pumpkin, Evan, more reason to celebrate!

Honestly, not too many stories to tell about the pumpkin patch... just a crazy mom taking way too many pictures, as always! Good thing I've finally decided to take up photography as a profession, now I have an excuse to be the silly lady clicking away and posing her kids! I have to people, it's my job! Ha!

The boys thoroughly enjoyed the pumpkin patch, enjoy the pics!


The Sutherlands joined us for our last trip to the pumpkin patch (the blog uploads my pictures in the opposite way that I select them, and I am just too lazy and my computer is far too slow to re-arrange them - so the first pictures are the last pictures!) Here they are picking out pumpkins (that, by the way, the pumpkin patch no longer includes with admission - boo - seriously, boo!)

The boys LOVE animals... Evan was so excited, here he is with a cow!

Love this picture below... I can just imagine Evan saying, "watch out goats, here I come!"

My handsome 7-year old... loved sharing this experience with his little brother!

Our little "Farmer Fred", or is it "Farmer Ted"??? Those of you who know my favorite movie will get this one! :)


The men in my life...


Our other little farmer.... one of the many professions that Preston has said he wants to be when he grows up!


And these last pictures are of a playdate at the Arboretum's pumpkin patch... just the little man that day! It was such a fun day... three of us moms went out there with the younger kids in the morning and we were able to get a few pictures before it ended up pouring down rain! We ate under a covered area on a blanket and then got soaking wet running to the cars - too fun!


The one group shot... before kids started running!


Happy Fall Y'All - in DECEMBER! Love you all!